During the second year, your child will build a significant vocabulary, learn some rules of grammar, realize that all things have a name, and probably even begin to express himself using two word sentences and phrases in addition to better making marks that stand for something.
As Whitney learned about the characteristics of objects, she also began to realize that every object has a name. She began to learn many new words and quickly map labels to objects as she heard things being labeled and referred to with words. Her first words were frequently over generalized or too specific. For example, “Dada” would be used for all men. By 18 months, most children say about 50 words. Once they reach 50 words, a critical mass seems to be reached and a “naming explosion” occurs. Words seem to spurt forth. This is also the time when children start to ask the “wh” questions: What’s that? (“Whassat?), why, when, etc. Researchers have estimated that children can learn as many as nine new words a day. Your child will understand much more than they can say so it is important to talk with them about what they are experiencing and feeling.
You want to think to yourself: Narrate, narrate, narrate. Pretend like you are reading a book aloud to your child all day long – and you are telling them the story of their daily life. You might think it is mundane to tell them that you are putting their right arm in their sleeve or pouring the cereal in their bowl or holding their hand while you walk down the steps together, counting the steps as you go, but they will find you fascinating. And it should give your child a huge language boost.
Your child will be more effective in making his wants and ideas known to you as he adds the use of words to his communication with gestures. During the second half of the second year you will hear more two-word utterances, such as “more bacon.” (see video at http://bit.ly/5IEMy6)
Most of the time we hear about language development stages as if every child goes through the same stages at the same ages. It is also useful to keep in mind that there is a substantial degree of variability in the more intricate, nuanced nature of each individual’s language ability and expression. As parents we want to tune into and support the specific abilities and expressions of our child. Language development is a key area that can effect other areas of development and can predict both school and later life success. So remember the mantra: narrate, narrate, narrate and pick up on any attempts at communication your toddler makes. Keep those communication circles going back and forth, back and forth as long as you can.









