Latest Posts: Child Development

April 2, 2010

Thinking Skills- Cognitive Development

Consider the cognitive difference between a reflex-driven newborn; a 12 month old who can control his attention & memory capable of action oriented problem solving; a 2 yr old with tentative mental models of daily events and conceptual discoveries of how things work; to a 3 year old with a vast repertoire of symbols to represent ideas and images and to manipulate them in mind as they enter the world of imagination. Picturing these transformations reminds us of just how amazing these developments are and leave us wondering how does it all happen and what is the best possible support we can provide.

Early experiences provide the raw materials for the construction of these competences. As trivial as any one experience might seem it is interacting with you and objects like the Blanky, the stroller toy, stacking toys, ball play, block play and light & shadow play– everyday explorations– where our babies transform genetic potentials into actual cognitive skills and competences. It does not happen through just maturation the environments and experiences we enable make a big difference for our child’s individual development

The 21st century will put increased demands on the ability to perceive and interpret patterns. Reading and communicating about visual imagery is essential in modern careers from analyzing MRI and Ultrasound patterns, to noticing discrepant patterns in the cosmos, and reading how cells interact with various proteins, for just a few examples. These important skills have their beginnings in early infancy as children learn to discern different facial features, navigate spaces, and distinguish colors and so forth.

Thinking skills, cognitive development, occur as babies engage in the world, exercise, and build upon their inborn capacitites. Review the many blog posts describing how our babies explore their real world of everyday objects; in next post we will discuss more about how thinking skills develop from everyday play and explorations.

March 23, 2010

Baby Blankets

My three children each have a special baby blanket that they sleep with each night and scream for whenever they have a boo-boo or other need for comfort. One night I will not easily forget is the one when I returned from a trip with my son – and forgot to pack his blankie to bring back home.  You can only imagine the look I got from my wife when she unpacked the bag and realized the blankie was 2 hours away.

They do not call these “security blankets” for nothing. It is a familiar object that babies development a strong attachment to and it helps them with transitions and other times when they are feeling insecure or just in need of a little extra comfort. It is tough to improve upon these indelible staples of our babies’ early years. However, even baby blankets can be created to enable more interaction and a closer bond with mom and dad.

The eebee Snuggle time blanky was designed with a way for parents to wiggle into that special time when baby is holding tight onto their blanket. There are simple arms on the sides of the blanket so that parents can slip their fingers in and cuddle with their little one. So the blanket is actually  “puppet-able”.

eebee Snuggle Time Baby Blanket

My littlest one, Whitney, loved to play little body parts games with me as she would hold onto her eebee blanky and I would tickle her cheek, nose, ears and chin. Whitney would giggle with anticipation as I held my fingers right above the next part of her face I was about touch with the puppet. Adding this type of human dimension to the classic staple of a baby blanket does adds a richness and helps facilitate the development of communication exchanges between baby and parent . These back and forth exchanges between a parent and child are especially important during the 3 months to 12 months time frame when the brain is being wired for social connection and communication about the world. (Read more at www.RaisingWhit.com, Infant stage Q2 & Q3) Figuring out new and different ways to create these exchanges on a regular basis with your baby  is an ongoing priority for parents. Having something as central to a baby’s life as his blankie that can also help facilitate these important interactions can really help.

March 11, 2010

Stroller Toys

Stroller toys come in many shapes and sizes; one common purpose of each though is getting our babies to pay attention to something while we adults get something done or saving us from a meltdown while in a place like the grocery store.

We see loud clackers, lots of music things, vibrating and distracting motion. Sure we want the quick fix but what is in it for the baby? How can we provide something that supports our babies’ development as well as gets us a few minutes of quiet and calm.

eebee stroller toy

eebee stroller toy

Well one idea is a peek-a-boo stroller toy. One of the most popular games for babies is peek-a-boo and there is a good reason for that. Babies are working on the concept that when things are hidden behind hands, a blanket or something that it has not completely disappeared from the world. They have not yet figured out that objects don’t disappear but are just hidden. Academics call this the concept of “object permanence” and it is why babies don’t tire of all the peek-a-boo variations. They need a large experience base to figure that objects don’t disappear from the world just because they are hidden.

Therefore our eebee stroller toy uses the popular vibrating mechanism found in a lot of stroller or hanging toys to shimmy eebee above and then behind a blanket. Babies love it so it meets the goal of engaging them with something and it enables our babies to work on that elusive concept of object permanence with each session. Again its about taking those everyday moments and creating some rich learning adventure out of it.

March 3, 2010

Stacking Toys

We are all familiar with the numerous types of stacking toys which usually have a spindle/pole on some base with graduated rings of different sizes. No doubt your baby has one or has used one somewhere like on a playdate or doctors office visit. It’s a classical developmental baby toy.

Typical Stacker

Typical Stacker

Well let’s use the stacking toy as an example of how you nurture all these important developmental objectives of Character (eg Humanity), Competences (eg Language Development), and Conceptual understanding (eg Physics of Rings & Poles). Most of the time when I see parents playing with their baby on one of these things, the baby puts on a small ring first and immediately mom says oh no the big one goes on first not that one. The parent wants to match the perfect graduated sizes from big to small just like they were packaged at the store. However that is not what it is about at all. Again it is all about mucking around and exploring with these objects and their classic play patterns. The eebee’s Adventures “stacker” actually gets rid of the spindle and makes the rings fit on just about anything (see photo below).

eebee Stacker

eebee Stacker

Sure you can stack them on the arms and legs of eebee just like you can a spindle but more importantly you can create a much more emotional experience by stacking them on your babies arms and legs, having your baby stack them on your arms and legs and stacking them and matching them with lots of objects around the room. For example, you can take the yellow ring and play an interactive matching game with your baby. You say can “This ring is ‘yellow’. What else is yellow in this room. Let’s find it and stack this yellow ring on it.”

Taking the focus away from the spindle and matching, fitting, stacking in lots of rich ways creates more numerous opportunities for Language development. Not only do you name the color “yellow” like in the example above you make yellow come alive more by “doing” yellow and having the baby actually find other yellow objects, fit the ring on the yellow object and feel the joy of having matched yellows or even saying yellow themselves if old enough. Babies learn by doing so naming exploring “yellow” exploring the object it was matched to “chair”, “bucket/pale” and all the other objects makes this classic stacking game a great language and vocabulary development tool.

You can also nurture character development such as Humanity during the play by emphasizing the emotional experience of the play. Watch the range of emotions that your baby expresses during the stacking experience from the excitement of matching colors to the frustration of not being able to get the ring onto the spindle or object. Label those emotions and show you understand what they are experiencing and can make the same expression to reflect back that you can feel that emotion with them.

Your babies are also learning a lot about the physics of solid objects rings with holes and poles and arms that fit those holes. We take for granted all these concepts that babies need to explore with hands on experience. So this simple play and exploration around a stacking toy can nurture and exercise character, competence, and concepts. This is how development works; it is paying attention and tuning into all these little everyday experiences that accumulate and add up into big important influences on our child’s development. It is the little things we do every day that count.

February 25, 2010

Character Development

If you read child development articles and ages & stages content on the web or anywhere, most of it is organized around Language, Cognitive, Physical, Social and Emotional development. This is traditionally how educators and researchers have thought about our babies’ growth; however, there are major new developments that suggest we need to think beyond just these skills and competences. Take Character development, as mentioned in the earlier 3Cs post (12/22/09), there has been a renewed emphasis on its critical importance; but we as parents may ask ourselves what the heck does the development of good character traits look like at the ripe young age of 0, 1 and 2.  Lucky for us there is a whole new field in cognitive science research called Positive Psychology, dedicated to catapulting character development and character strengths to the forefront of our educational and parenting agenda. This group of prominent researchers argues, persuasively, that character strengths are the key to living a rich and fulfilling life and need our utmost attention.

The Positive Psychology movement has defined 6 core virtues (eg Humanity, Courage, Justice, Temperance, etc) with a number of strengths for each of these core character traits (eg for Courage—persistence, integrity, vitality, bravery). They explain that although each of us is born with a natural profile of these traits and strengths, each can be developed and nurtured just like any competence. So for us parents we not only need to nurture things like language development but also the development of persistence and intergrity. Let’s take a closer look at the core virtue of Humanity; how might it be nurtured from birth to 3 years.

The core character trait of humanity is defined as the interpersonal strengths that involve tending to and befriending others. It draws on strengths such as kindness, love, and empathy. The seeds of which are all sprouting in the years 0 to three. Who has not seen a toddler bring a blanket or favorite toy to a sibling or friend in distress. Although under recognized and under appreciated, our little ones, like our daughter Whitney, demonstrated her budding strengths in humanity on a regular basis (see video at www.RaisingWhit.com, 21 Mths).

Displaying affection by offering a blanky

Displaying affection by offering a blanky

A toddler’s pleasure in doing the right thing can be nourished.  Empathy co-evolves with our little ones emotional development and their personal experience of emotions & feelings. Our little ones have a rich palette of feelings and can identify those emotions in others.

There are two basic tendencies we want to help our little ones exercise. The first is identifying and managing their own personal feelings and emotions and the second builds off the first in helping to recognize and empathize when those same feelings and emotions are playing in others. This can be done in specific ways for each age and stage of development.

February 18, 2010

Awareness- Part 3

Twos take another leap in their ability to gain awareness of their world and use mental models to reflect upon it. First is that our Twos are not only able to create a mental picture of the world but are also able to hold that representation of the external world in mind for longer than just the immediate moment and can use it to complete tasks and meet goals. Whitney revealed a strong ability to keep a visual map of where she was and where she needed to go. For example, when asked to go get a ball out in the yard while viewing it from the second floor of our house, she could hold her representation of the house, the front yard and where the ball is in that yard as she navigated downstairs, outside and through the yard to retrieve it. (see “Get Ball” video clips at: www.RaisingWhit.com, 24mths).

Mental Maps used to find something

Mental Maps used to find the ball

The second important milestone is the capacity to rehearse and review one’s own actions– to picture “me” doing things in that external world. Here to is an extended ability to hold that representation in mind longer bringing new levels of awareness and reflection. As mentioned in the previous post, humans unlike any other species have a robust self recognition and ability to picture and supervise themselves performing complex tasks. This type of conscious awareness is unique to humans. Although some primates like apes have a limited form of imitation, none can match our toddlers budding skills at mental rehearsal and accurate reproduction of actions. (see “Imitating Stretching” video from last post)

These two milestones come together to create a powerful new ability to understand and keep in memory “mental models” or scripts that lets a toddler meaningfully explore and categorize the world. They are beginning to master the everyday routines and scripts that compose life from wakeup time and mealtime to bathtime and bedtime. They have a growing understanding of their world, their life and an ability to hold these images and understandings in mind. These multisensory pictures or ideas are the most deliberate and conscious productions of the mind. The ultimate model of models is “me-in-my-enviroment” and our toddlers are starting to perform the mental rehearsal of placing themselves in all these different roles and routines. Now our toddlers can form a mental image of his wants and desires, label it with specific spoken words, communicate or act on it.

The difference from a year ago is that these are now more complex models with beginnings, middles and ends; and she can now move away from having to rely on the primarily behavior based interactions. She can use verbal shortcuts to get she needs met as more words become associated with these mental pictures. The life of action is transitioning to a life of mind. Albeit still isolated islands of ideas without the more coherent worldview an adult carries around that integrates ideas into unified narratives. This is an early phase in the life of mind.

In the second half of the year, our children do begin to build bridges between ideas and construct more coherent narratives and reason logically. Before 3 years, toddlers will start to weave together autobiographical narratives. Narratives go further than just words to describe things. Narratives have a dramatic through line with actors who have desires directed toward goals which take place in a context with a beginning, middle and end. Whitney could now comprehend and make up narratives about her own life. Another aspect is the ability to create larger stories across a broader range of experience. Whitney was now beginning to understand how one event leads to another (if I fall down, I get a booboo on my knee and have to get a bandaide); how ideas operate across time (If I eat my dinner now, I will get dessert later); and how ideas operate across space (Mom is here and dropping me off now and will go away and come back later to pick me up). Ideas can now be used to explain emotions (I feel mad because mom won’t let me do that) and for logical thinking (that is fantasy instead of reality).

From infancy to three, our babies are mastering this critical capacity for broad human awareness and reflective thought. Again, it does not happen automatically and rich experiences in the baby’s real world set a more robust and solid foundation. From birth we can help our babies remain in a calm alert state for full employment of their five senses and the optimal engagement with their surroundings. We can develop a close intimate bond with our baby by interacting with our baby at a slow pace following their lead. We can explore the world with our baby noticing their emotional reactions to things and encouraging back and forth facial expressions and gestures, expressing a broader range of emotions with appropriate natural timing. We can help them exercise their budding mental representations and memories by recounting events and the day before bed and anticipating what is about to happen prior to the day and the events. We can help them construct narratives from their lives by starting a story about your trip to the zoo and letting them fill in and co- construct the story as you both recount it to a sibling or spouse. There is much to do in our role as parent. Two amazing books for much more detail are: Daniel Stern’s Diary of a Baby for a eye opening perspective on how your baby sees the world and Stanley Greenspan’s Building Healthy Minds on what you can do at each age & stage of this development.

February 10, 2010

Awareness- Part 2

The development of a versatile self awareness propels many new cognitive feats. Not only can they recognize themselves in the mirror, but they can decipher the rotations and transformations of their images in the mirror based on the actions they initiate. This is the beginning of the capability of manipulating their own self-image in their mind and the capacity to rehearse and review one’s own actions. This ability to bring our own body into full view enables powerful learning through social imitation and the detailed reproduction of actions.

Imitating Stretching

Imitating Stretching

It is hard to appreciate just how important this unique kind of self-awareness is. It is what allows us to self-assemble complex skills from a one year old learning to walk to the most advanced feats we adults can perform. Just consider the simple task of driving a car where a person must learn a whole range of relatively independent actions– starting, turning, backing up, steering, accelerating, braking, shifting gears, monitoring traffic, reading road signs, keeping track of directions and street names, etc. These sub skills are usually self taught, self rehearsed, and self evaluated. Each sub skill must be integrated into a complex hierarchy or metasystem that coordinates all of the sub components into a fluid whole. What early on takes conscious deliberation eventually becomes automatic and intuitive. One year olds are already building skill upon skill. Sub skills are embedded into more complex skill hierarchies such as walking. Toddlers must be able to stand up, balance themselves, take the first step and swing their leg for the next step and eventually stop.

Mental skills are being built upon existing skills. With the rise of multisensory images now being represented and remembered in mind, a remarkable spurt of problem solving occurs as these new skills are put to use.  Although still tied to concrete actions, our babies can establish intent , set & realize goals and perform all the associated problem solving to achieve it. During early ones, all this happens non-verbally, done with images translated to actions. For example, Whitney would spy a favorite toy, recognize her desire to have it, and exchange a whole range of gestures with me that logically followed each other. She would toddle over to the shelf the toy was on and then look over her shoulder at me to enlist my attention. Once she recognized she had my attention by my nob and look, she might wield her finger toward the toy and squeal with a “demand cry” (see video). Whitney was rewarded in her problem solving steps by me giving her the toy and she gave me the reward of a big smile. No words involved but lots of cognitive thought and mental problem solving. Theses processes are the  foundations for their very consciousness and thought that are being put in place.

Around half way through the second year, toddlers make another giant leap into the more mental world of words. Instead of pointing, grabbing your shirt and pulling you over to the doorway, they become able to look us in the eye and say “Go“. This transition does not happen overnight but is a gradual process beginning as early as 16 months and continuing up to their third year. Whitney’s “Non-verbal world” of the here & now is more fully joined by a symbolic “Verbal world” of the past and future, of naming and categorizing. These two separate worlds can be exhilarating and confusing. Her familiar nonverbal world of experience lives with a completely separate version of the same event, a new world of words. Life now and forever will be lived in parallel as the verbal and nonverbal constructions of experience live together.

February 4, 2010

Awareness & Reflective Thought- Part 1

Even more fundamental then language is the development of our unique human awareness and reflective thought. Believe it or not, when a young baby’s hand goes whizzing by her face, she actually has no idea that it is her own hand. A baby’s consciousness and awareness is nothing like an adult humans. They are trapped in the here and now and cannot yet even separate a perception from an action. When my daughter Whitney was hungry, she cried for food. When she was uncomfortable she let out a distress cry. Initially most emotions are “catastrophic” where the  immediate environment or situation overwhelms them. So how do newborns become aware of and regulate their emotions. How do they become aware of a past, present and future with all the requisite images and symbols to represent each. How does the “me in my world” mental models develop where we form intentions, create images and scenarios in mind to act upon those intentions. By the time they are three most of these important aspects of awareness and thought are in place. How does a baby master this amazing transformation?

PlainMirror

An important first task is perceptual categorization and awareness. When comfortable and calm babies can attend to the external world of sights, sounds and other senses. Infants not only attend to stimuli; but also learn to attend selectively to slight differences.  For example, if the child hears the same tone three or four times, its power to orient the child diminishes. But change the tone just one note higher or lower and the infant becomes interested again, indicating that he has noticed the difference.

Initially babies experience a limited number of global states such as calmness, excitement, and distress. As they experience a range of sensations, they begin to develop more nuanced emotions and responses. Each sensation of sight or sound, taste or smell as registered by the baby gives rise to an affect or emotion. A blanket can be smooth and pleasant or scratchy and irritating; a loud voice can be inviting or jarring.  The sensation gets coded with both its physical features and its emotional effect. Sensory impressions are increasingly tied to feelings in this “duel code”.  Emotions help organize the world for the baby. Inner emotional tones are used to make sense of experience to eventually label and organize, store and retrieve emerging images and memories. Babies have a base level awareness of being alive and discriminating the effects of different sensations—called primary consciousness.

Another critical early step is translating this emotional interest in sensations to form a relationship and become engaged in the world. Babies will become progressively more interested in certain people like mom & dad. In the second quarter of life, babies begin to engage with joyful smiles and coos developing a deep sense of pleasurable intimacy.  A key to deepening this intimacy is the rhythm and timing of parent and baby interactions – such as the back and forth coos and smiles exchanged in face to face play. Our babies begin to distinguish the joys and pleasures of the human world from the joys and pleasures of the inanimate world of objects, They are beginning on the long journey of recognizing patterns and organizing perceptions into meaningful categories.

A third step to broadening awareness and thought is transforming these pleasurable emotions with parent interactions into signals of communication and intentionality. Our babies begin to smile in order to get a smile back; reaches for grandpas nose to get a “honk-honk” sound. Our babies begin to engage in back and forth emotional signaling. Instead of an immediate narrow action, babies begin to transform emotions into interactive signals that express that emotion. Different physical gestures such as vocalizations and facial expressions are the means of this signaling. These interactions help an infant separate perceptions from fixed actions. Unlike most of the animal kingdom, humans can form an image, or mental representation, that is less tied to action. Once food exists as an image separated from crying that image can be used for new purposes such as signaling intent or eventually planning and problem solving.

This early awareness or consciousness leads to a more articulate self-awareness. When do babies actually come to realize that the hand moving in front of their face is theirs– that “I am me”– this ability to form an image or mental representation of themselves in their mind. Consider an infant looking into a mirror.  Does the infant think, “That’s me” or “That’s a baby?”  It is not until around their first birthday that they begin to know the image is themselves in the mirror. Self-awareness begins slowly with the recognition that one’s own body moves in expected ways. A child knows that kicking “my feet” can happen at times that are useful (getting a blanket off my legs).  This does not mean that the infant has words or even mental images of “baby Whitney;” But this sense of agency, that effects can happen when useful, creates the ground from which self-awareness grows.

About the end of the first year babies begin to understand that the image in the mirror “belongs” to them.  For example, if the child is wearing a lightweight cap to which he has habituated (no longer remembers it is there), upon seeing himself in the mirror he may reach up to touch or remove the hat.  His behavior suggests that he knows the image belongs to him and not some generic baby.

January 26, 2010

Language Development- Part 3

During the third year of language development, early advantages compound as two year olds have learned that words represent things and know enough words to help them figure out new words by context very quickly.  You may notice your child making good, quick guesses as to what certain words mean.  This is called fast mapping the meaning of new words.  I noticed that if I used a sentence with all familiar words except one, but the context was familiar Whitney would quickly figure out the meaning of the new word. Two year olds are best able to carry on a conversation with others when there are only two people involved in the conversation (see video at http://bit.ly/6Ueixh).

Picture 5

As Whitney started having more conversations with others, she would also begin to recognize if her message was understood and to repeat it and clarify if necessary. This is an important step in effectively communicating with others. While this ability generally emerges around 2 ½ year of age, it isn’t until children are older, that they ask for clarification from others when they do not understand. Children are also learning to use language to demand reasons from others, which makes it possible for children to test limits and challenge caregivers verbally.  Whitney began to ask why she couldn’t have a cookie before dinner and would even use language to try to negotiate, most often in the form of pleading, to persuade us otherwise. By the time they are 3, our children have learned to use language to express their feelings, to try to resolve a conflict with someone else, to negotiate and to make their needs and wants known. They have mastered an enormous amount in these brief few years.

All of these early language developments then have an influence on the later developments of multiple academic and social skills during preschool, primary school, and beyond. So language in particular is a key skill to nurture and support in our babies.  It is important to note that what is not mentioned for support is flash cards nor anything about the ABCs. Language develops as your baby interacts with and shows an interest in real things. So as you play with water, blocks, balls and other things around the house, narrate what is happening, describe the details to keep the flow of language a rich source of stimuli for your baby. If your baby has siblings around the house that will also help increase the language a baby hears. In addition, the media we choose makes a difference. Research now shows that Baby Einstein is not well designed for language acquisition; but content does matter, Baby TV that has different design features such as eebee’s Adventures better supports a babies’ need for language acquisition in a context that makes sense for babies at a pace they can follow.

January 20, 2010

Language Development- Part 2

During the second year, your child will build a significant vocabulary, learn some rules of grammar, realize that all things have a name, and probably even begin to express himself using two word sentences and phrases in addition to better making marks that stand for something.

As Whitney learned about the characteristics of objects, she also began to realize that every object has a name.  She began to learn many new words and quickly map labels to objects as she heard things being labeled and referred to with words. Her first words were frequently over generalized or too specific. For example, “Dada” would be used for all men. By 18 months, most children say about 50 words. Once they reach 50 words, a critical mass seems to be reached and a “naming explosion” occurs. Words seem to spurt forth. This is also the time when children start to ask the “wh” questions: What’s that? (“Whassat?), why, when, etc. Researchers have estimated that children can learn as many as nine new words a day. Your child will understand much more than they can say so it is important to talk with them about what they are experiencing and feeling.

You want to think to yourself:  Narrate, narrate, narrate.  Pretend like you are reading a book aloud to your child all day long – and you are telling them the story of their daily life. You might think it is mundane to tell them that you are putting their right arm in their sleeve or pouring the cereal in their bowl or holding their hand while you walk down the steps together, counting the steps as you go, but they will find you fascinating.   And it should give your child a huge language boost.

Your child will be more effective in making his wants and ideas known to you as he adds the use of words to his communication with gestures. During the second half of the second year you will hear more two-word utterances, such as “more bacon.” (see video at http://bit.ly/5IEMy6)

MoreBacon

Most of the time we hear about language development stages as if every child goes through the same stages at the same ages. It is also useful to keep in mind that there is a substantial degree of variability in the more intricate, nuanced nature of each individual’s language ability and expression. As parents we want to tune into and support the specific abilities and expressions of our child. Language development is a key area that can effect other areas of development and can predict both school and later life success. So remember the mantra: narrate, narrate, narrate and pick up on any attempts at communication your toddler makes. Keep those communication circles going back and forth, back and forth as long as you can.